Wednesday, February 24, 2010

There's no such thing as mixed messages

Wednesday, February 24, 2010
You just have to know how to read them.......

A man's feelings are not black & white.
~he asks for your number but doesn't call....
~he calls but not regularly.....
~all over you one night but not the next.....
These are all clear signs of of moderate to low interest. If you are my client, I would tell you to drop this dude fast! Most gals would continue to blow up the guy's phone though. Not the right path to take......

Being persistent will not make him like you more if he's displaying these signs. It will do the opposite. Better to cut your losses now.

Here are some signs of interest:
~the look-when a guy is interested, you will catch his eye. He will stop & look.
~Questions-when he's interested, he wants to know things about you. He will ask.
~Change in attitude & mannerisms- there may be a sudden change in his tone of voice, attitude or posture, he may become friendlier or chattier.

Bottom line~~When a guy is interested he basically tells you before you can ask if you open your eyes & pay attention. Learn to read the signs.

There are no such things as mixed messages. The signs are very clear as long as you know what you are looking at.

Need some help....I'm here for you...


Saturday, February 6, 2010

Filling your funnel.......

Saturday, February 6, 2010
funny saying, huh?
Well, it actually means never let the dating pool dry up.
Date many guys at once until you find the one you want to settle down with.

This works for 3 reasons:
1. you don't get attached too soon~ you aren't sitting at home thinking about Mr. 1 and only. You will drive yourself crazy by obsessing about a man. When you see him again, he will know you've been sitting around waiting too.
2. You won't be a complete wreck if things don't work out~ your confidence won't be shattered if one relationship doesn't work out because you have others.

3. Your odds are better~ the more men you date, the more likely you are to find the one.