Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Attracting Attention.......

Wednesday, January 20, 2010
and now you say Coach Amy, I'm with a flock of other girls, how are the guys going to notice me?

This is true. Girls go out with other girls. A gaggle of them. Anywhere from 5 to 10.
The goal is to look different. You must make yourself stick out from the pack.
I know that this scares some girls to death. They want no more than to blend in.
But if you spend you life blending, you Mr. Right may never notice you.

Men love it when you give them a reason to come talk to you. A great reason to talk is something about your outfit. So make yourself stand out with your clothes for starters.
You need a couple of staple outfits that are sure to get you noticed.
If you know that certain items in your wardrobe drum up a lot of attention, then wear them often.
Now, I don't mean party girl clothes because as I often say if you look like a party girl, that is how you will be treated. We dress for the role we want.
Try some new styles that are a little unusual & see what kind of reaction you get.

Women are constantly copying each other & want to look like celebrities. They follow trends and replicate images they see.
This is a big no no in the dating world. You want to stand out from the pack. You want the guys to notice you instead of the other 10 girls you are with.
You do not want to blend in & if you are all dressed like the celeb you saw in the magazine, you are going to look alike.

In order to stand out, you do not have to be more attractive than everyone else.
Don't shy away from something that makes you different. Embrace it!

Remember, fitting in & looking like everyone else is boring.
And who wants boring day in & day out?

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Thursday, January 14, 2010

How do I prospect???

Thursday, January 14, 2010
If you are serious about meeting guys, then you will dedicate time to find/meet new guys. Modify your agenda to allow time to prospect.

Where are the guys you ask?
happy hours
work functions
sports bars
restaurant openings
pool halls
coffee shops

Basically just try new places.

The smart way to prospect is to go where the most opportunity is. Ask yourself, if I were a guy where would I be?
Change up your daily routine~ go to a different grocery store, switch gyms, try a different church.
It's really about putting yourself in different places at different times.

I must also say, yes, meeting guys at clubs & bars is totally possible. It's the exact reason they are there.

Most importantly, you must remember you can meet a guy anywhere!
Put more effort into your appearance. You just never know when you will meet the one.

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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Meeting the Family

Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Ever wanted a handwritten guide to go by when you were meeting your boyfriend's family for the first time?
Well, here's one.

No matter where the first meeting with your man's family takes place, dress as if you are going to church.

Be polite. (duh, right)

Be correct

Insist he introduce you to everyone & stay with you for the first 5 minutes of any conversation.

Do more listening than talking~ you don't want them to think you are full of yourself right off the bat.

Limit yourself to 1 or 2 drinks no matter how much anyone else is drinking.

Arrive on time & leave early.

Simple to follow. I am direct & to the point.
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Tuesday, January 5, 2010


Tuesday, January 5, 2010
So there are going to be some changes going on around here.
From now on my blog will be focusing on dating.
I will be the Girl Power Dating Coach now.
I have been working with a mentor & she has helped pull some info out of me.

I want to empower girls to become confident, sassy, & strong women!

So be on the lookout for lots of great dating advice.
I plan on leading teleseminars.
I am going to have packages for coaching.
All kinds of great stuff to come so keep your eyes open.....