Tuesday, March 2, 2010

You want what others have.......true or false?

Tuesday, March 2, 2010
By name it's called the Jones Effect. It means you want what other people have. We as people believe if someone else likes what we like, it validates it as good.

Most women do not want the guy they like to think they are into someone else because then he may get discouraged and give up. WRONG!!!!!

Bring it on Sister!
This is a huge misconception.
Guys are competitive by nature.

All he sees is someone else wanting you. That is a good thing. Other men should want you.
Seeing you talk to other men will not scare him off. It should only fuel the fire.

When you first start dating someone, you want it to be pretty obvious that other men find you attractive. Talk and be friendly with the men around you. Don't go overboard though.

It's fine for him to think you are out with other guys. Don't explain where you are or who you are with. He isn't your daddy. You want him to question if you have another date.

Don't hide the fact that you have guy friends.
You don't have to ignore guys at a party.
Don't be obvious, but don't hide it either.

Fuel the flame, girl. See where it gets you......

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